At first, you are the driver.
Hands on the wheel. Eyes scanning the road. Every movement is deliberate—steering, braking, accelerating. You are alert, interpreting signs, gauging speed, adjusting to curves. You’re managing the machinery of body and mind, threading your way through the traffic of life.
This is mindfulness with effort—active, engaged, controlling.
Then you slide into the backseat.
Still alert, still aware, but no longer in command. The ride continues. You watch the scenery pass. You feel the motion, hear the hum of the tires, the flicker of sun through trees. You’re not steering now. You’re simply noticing.
It’s easier here. Spacious. You’re with life, not pushing it.
Now imagine you’re on a bus.
The driver is far ahead, maybe unseen. You sit farther back. You’re still watching, still sensing, but more removed. Life unfolds out the window. People get on, get off. The landscape keeps changing. You aren’t navigating. You’re allowing.
Then the bus becomes a train.
No turns. Just tracks stretching forward. You settle deeper. The hum of the wheels. The rhythm of movement. The vibration beneath your feet. Time loosens its grip. There is only motion. The train moves through the world. You move through awareness.
Then a plane.
So high now. The world is soft below—clouds, light, vastness. You couldn’t steer even if you tried. You let go completely. Mindfulness no longer means managing or even observing closely. It means surrendering to the sky.
And then—one step further.
You’re on Earth.
The Earth, itself, a vessel, spinning through space. You are a passenger on a blue-green miracle hurtling around the sun, through galaxies, through time. No driver. No cockpit. Just motion.
And in that motion—this moment.
Not separate. Not singled out. Every sound you hear, every breath, every flicker of thought or sensation—it all flows together. You’re not analyzing the road anymore. You are the movement. The vehicle. The sky. The tide.
Mindfulness is not just what is happening to you. It is the vastness within you that holds it all. It is not effort. It is inclusion.
Not a spotlight on a moment—but the ocean of all moments merging.
No need to grab. No need to resist. No commentary, no conclusions. Only awareness, opening wider and wider, until even the idea of “you” disappears—like a child running toward its mother, faster and faster, until there is no runner, no mother, only the embrace.
Let it all in.
Let it all go.
Just ride.
